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Lingam Massage: What is it and how to do it?


Lingam Massage: Lingam is a word originated from Sanskrit, a sacred and ancient language of a place that today is the region of India. In Sanskrit, Lingam means “support column” or “Penis”.

But for many Westerners there is a lack of understanding of such a sacred meaning related to a sexual organ.
Here in the West, a sexual organ is usually associated with something inappropriate, dirty, demeaning.

Lingam is something sacred. Like yoni (vagina), it has a divine character because it represents the masculine manifestation of life.

The lingam massage is a male tantric massage, which can last from 30min to 1h 30min and is made throughout the genius male region. This is an article that tries to explain what it is, what benefits and what is needed to understand how to do a lingam massage and take man to a new level of sex.

Who is recommended?

There are no contraindications to Lingam massage. It is indicated for men of any age who have an interest in knowing better their own mechanisms of pleasure, developing body sensoriality and self-knowledge. It is especially suitable for the following cases:

1-Men who would like to have greater control over ejaculation

2-Men who have suffered some type of physical trauma and who have compromised their sexual functions

3-Men who suffer from sexual dysfunctions like sexual impotence and premature ejaculation

4-Men who would like to transpose the limits of conventional sexuality

 


What is it for?

The lingam massage offers the man a new opportunity to experience sexual pleasure. A new way to feel pleasure and new ways to feel orgasm. Of course, along with massage comes a whole new sex culture and a new way of treating sexuality, which involves tantric philosophy and a meditative posture. But if we focus only on the physical part and pragmatically, we can cite, from the face, some benefits:

1-Greater support of male erection
2-Longer before ejaculation
3-Greater control over the instincts and anxiety, which leads to premature ejaculation
4-Significant increase of libido and sexual and vital energy
5-New ways to feel orgasm – Dry, expanded, multiple orgasms

It can be used in both a loving and a therapeutic context.

Within the loving relationship the lingam massage can be a new way of experiencing pleasure with the partner (o). A way for man to experience a new role in relationship. For normally man has an active role, wants to do, to take, to put, to take. Upon receiving such a massage, man has the opportunity to be passive and indulge in pleasure for a long time.

The maneuvers were developed for the man to feel the pleasure of a new form. Unlike the one he is accustomed to in both masturbation and penetration.
These maneuvers create new neural paths of pleasure in the male body. They bring new orgasmic possibilities beyond the experiences of pure masturbation or penetration.


Lingam massage is meditation?

Tantric massage is a very important link between primitive sexuality, fast food style, purely physical and meditative sexuality. Only the fact that a person stays 30min to 1h 30min connected to their own sensations without “having to do something” already puts them in a state of deep connection with the present moment.

She just needs to “feel.” No demands on performance, no obligations, no need to represent a “role.” It’s a lonely moment of her. And that makes her focused on her own feelings, her own emotions. This whole process leads to a deep work of self-knowledge. In addition to the recognition of one’s own sexuality, of how one gives the energetic flow in one’s own body and what are its mechanisms of pleasure and expansion of vital energy. It is a time for her to experiment, to experience her own nature, without restrictions and judgments.

Hence the lingam massage can be treated as a work of initiation for meditation. Because it leads man to look at himself through “feeling,” without interruption of the “doer” mind, without the worry of having to give pleasure, of having to sustain an erection, of having to ejaculate.

The new male pleasure

But many men are bound by these obligations. Like having to sustain an erection, of feeling that intercourse does not end until he ejaculates … In the end, conditions that block him and do not allow him to experience the experience in a relaxed, relaxed and fluid way.

Man has a very different process from woman when it comes to orgasm. The man is very attached to ejaculation. From adolescence he associates his own pleasure and his own orgasm with ejaculation. It is not like the woman who feels pleasure diffusely, spread throughout the body and is not attached to an event, such as ejaculation, to claim that she enjoyed. Man seeks ejaculation and treats it as synonymous with orgasm.

A lingam massage is a meditative and expanding work of the male orgasm. The goal is to work the detachment to ejaculation so that the man can explore new ways and new zones of pleasure in the own body. So he can meet new types of orgasm, such as dry orgasm and multiple orgasm. It is a work that leads him to develop pleasure mechanisms similar to female pleasure. A diffused pleasure spread and spread throughout the body.

How it affects female pleasure

One of the great benefits of this transformation is that it, when experiencing orgasm and pleasure in a similar way as female, becomes more empathic with female pleasure. And so he begins to understand better how the orgastic mechanism of women is given, since he has already felt it on his skin and understands how the whole process happens.

As a result he becomes detached from ejaculation and his own erection and becomes more interested in “foreplay”. He understands that pleasure can be obtained not only with his own penis and with ejaculation, but with the whole body and in very varied forms.


How to do a lingam massage?

I think now you have understood that the Lingam massage is not a simple masturbation and all the benefits it can bring let the practical part.

The lingam massage is made up of maneuvers, both in the genital area and in the penis, that escape the traditional male stimuli that are similar to masturbation.

If you want to start to venture out and learn how to do a lingam massage you should follow some important guidelines:

1-Prepare a quiet environment with indirect light and with little probability of interference for the next hour. If available, use a covered mattress with a clean, soiled sheet. If you do not have the mat you can use a bed.

2-Use vegetable oil for lubrication. Here we indicate the vegetable oil of grape seed. If you want to be more practical in cleaning, use a water-based lubricating gel that can come in contact with mucous membranes.

3-Prepare a playlist that lasts for at least 30min and leave a soft or indirect lighting. Below is a list of songs we have prepared for 30min practice.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=276&v=GIrUrFdMRi4

4-Ask the man to lie down and preferably passive.

5-Lubricate your hands well and start with gentle movements throughout the body, alternating movements in the perineum, penis body, scrotal sac and glans.

6. Use your creativity, avoid back and forth movements, which repeat the stimuli of masturbation and use your intuition. Play with the penis, rub the glans, smooth, lengthen … Observe the reactions of the man and prioritize those movements that work the most.

7-Try to keep eye contact as much as possible and observe how the rhythm of breathing influences the pace of the massage.


How to go deeper:

Of course, here we will not be able to explain in detail all the maneuvers and this is not a complete training on tantric massage. But if you want to know more about tantra and deepen in techniques for couples know our free ebook with practical exercises for couples or if you want to go even deeper and revolutionize the sexuality of your relationship know our course of sexuality and tantric massage.

Watch our videos through our You Tube channel

A new sexuality awaits you.


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Comentários

  1. Patrícia Aguiar says:

    Boa tarde. Gostaria de saber sobre massagem tântrica em mulheres.
    Obrigada

  2. Rita de Cássia says:

    Eu gostaria de informações de como fazer linguam corretamente.

    Obrigada

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