We still dance stepping on each other’s feet
We live a dance, between the male and female world. Men usually vibrate at a more dense, logical, and concrete frequency. Women vibrate at a more subtle, intuitive, perceptive, sensory frequency. This dance can create, in relationships, separation, lack of communication and lack of rapport. This can create the sensation in the woman that man does not love her and does not understand her.
This distance, in general, causes crises in the relationship because if there is no communication, there is no synchrony, there is no harmony and there is no understanding. Men have, in general, an education oriented to a superficial, pornographic and sexually oriented sexuality. So often, they regard women as material achievements. In contrast, women have a Christian education aimed at chastity, for guilt-related pleasure. This education creates much of this communication difficulty.
Oxytocin as Love’s Hormone
The woman seeks protection at the time of sexual intercourse. She seeks affection, amorousness, connection, harmony. In order for her to surrender, if she opens up, there is trust in the relationship. How can we trust if man has been educated to consume it, to dominate it, to hunt it?
Therefore, this confidence must be achieved through a more effective communication and the search of the man for the understanding of what the female vibratory frequency is. He must seek to attune himself to a frequency of greater love, understanding, care. For by attuning to this frequency he assists the woman and induces the release of oxytocin into the female body. Oxytocin is the main hormone that favors female orgasm, it is the hormone that drives the woman’s delivery and confidence.
Pornographic sex education and its consequences for the male and female
Pornographic films lead the man to live an aggressive, crude, primitive sexuality. For this and other things, male sex education is still sexist, dense sex education filled with dominating games. However, this aggressive vibration should not be taken to the moment of love relationships.
Sexual intercourse can not be ruled by the energy of competition, aggressive, crude, primitive domination. But they must be guided by the energy of communion, of harmony, of surrender, of care and of love. These are essentially feminine values and energies.
Women are tired of being beaten up and that is why many of them are seeking and living relationships with other women. That is why it is necessary for man to evolve and understand that the world of the future is more feminine, less competitive, more collaborative, less warlike.
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