Spiritual Orgasm: Is it possible to live spirituality through orgasmic practices?
The Mystery of “Expanded Orgasm”
An expanded orgasm is a more intense and more extensive orgasm than is commonly described as a common orgasm. Because it includes a spectrum of sensations that include full body orgasms such as those described by Wilhelm Reich. Orgasms that can last from a few minutes to several hours.
The term was coined in 1995 by Patricia Taylor, who employed it in her research on intense sexual experiences in 44 couples from various backgrounds and in a video she produced in 1998.
Then Dr. Taylor describes the reports of practitioners entering altered states of consciousness, which brought them deep emotional release and rejuvenation, deep spiritual experiences, a consciousness that is often unnoticed during ordinary orgasms, and the awareness of the energy that expands far beyond the limits of one’s own body. A spiritual orgasm!
Is sexual energy spiritual?
Sexual energy is the energy that creates life. There is no denying that. In it there is a very high potential for spiritual connection. In it there is a potential for pleasure and communion with our purest nature, with our essence. I imagine that was how Adam and Eve lived in paradise. Without evil, without guilt and in deep connection with the inner divinity.
But much later, many of the values of Eden were corrupted and this vital, creative and divine energy was placed in an unworthy position. Thrown in the mud and obscurantism.
Orgasm and sexual energy became, at one point, synonymous with sin, with filth. Then, due to the great repression suffered, many decided to rebel and rescue her, but unconsciously. They threw it into promiscuity, trivialization and unconsciousness.
The lack of dignified, reverent, free, open, and respectful treatment of sexuality has led us to two extremes of unconsciousness and darkness. Most people today still live a primitive sexuality.
Why do we accept so little?
Men have crystallized behavior related to masturbation, erotic imagination and energy discharge.
They use sex with the intention of asserting themselves or with the intention of gaining ephemeral pleasure, like eating a chocolate.
Rarely does a man experience a significant spiritual orgasm. Also because everything happens so fast.
Women, in general, have a more conscious connection to this energy. They therefore feel a greater need for deep connection with their partner.
A connection that goes beyond the genitals. However, during sexual practice, they do not have the opportunity to exploit their full spiritual potential, either because of their partner’s speed or even lack of knowledge of how to go deep into this process.
The orgasm and spirituality in us
A true orgasm can be a spiritual orgasm. It can activate the “divine crystal”, the “Christ body” that lives in each cell of the human body. But this is not any orgasm. Neither is experienced by most people.
Not that it’s hard to reach. It is not. It is just not practiced with a spiritual intention and many of the tools to get there are not taken seriously.
Because this is a process that requires preparation of the body, the mind. It requires an intention and good choice of partner.
You have to choose someone you can trust so that you can indulge in the process and be willing to “die” at that person’s hands.
Key Techniques for Experiencing a Spiritual Orgasm
An important technique for experiencing spirituality within a sexual relationship is conscious breathing and disconnecting from anxiety by focusing on the sensations. Anxiety in a relationship causes it to end faster, leads us to a mental attitude and does not let us go deep into the sensations, emotions, and feelings that this energy can arouse.
There are many other techniques that assist in this process. If you would like to know a little more try the free tantra workshop:
Abdominal and conscious breathing, whatever the rhythm, puts us in a position of greater awareness and understanding of experience and takes us out of the mental process that anxiety can lead us to.
In a traditional orgasm we surrender to instinct and release all that incredible energy. But usually everything happens cathartically and without much understanding.
With controlled and conscious use of breathing, the process can be experienced longer and longer. Reach higher and longer levels of pleasure.
Along with the temporal and intensity expansion, a sensory expansion is also gained. We set aside the focus on that small circumference around the genitals, for a full-body orgasm that can transcend body boundaries in an experience of what we call an “oceanic experience.”
This is a moment of deep connection with the enormous existential ocean, where there is a sense of complete loss of the boundaries of the physical body.
If we remain conscious of the breath and remain centered and conscious we can enter deep Buddha states where we truly know our nature. Here one can experience moments of “ego death”.
Orgasm is like a little death that releases
According to Buddhist traditions, the moment of death is the moment of greatest evolutionary potential spiritually speaking. And orgasm during life is one of the most intense sensations we can ever feel that can lead us to sublime states of consciousness.
The phrase “la petit mort” (the little death) is used by many writers when referring to orgasm. This is precisely because orgasm has a strong potential for transcendence.
When the orgasm ceases to be fast, like a sneeze or a breath of pleasure and lasts for many minutes we can extend this moment of transcendence and experience a deep dive into our essence.
Techniques such as tantric massages are widely used to extend this buddha moment over an ever-increasing range and depth never before experienced.
No more crumbs!
The more we experience such experiences, the more we become aware of our essence. But we realize how abundant and prosperous life can be.
Albert Einstein said that a mind that opens to a new idea never goes back to its original size.
Once the soul experiences something so wonderful, we no longer accept a small life. We never settle for crumbs again.
We realize how much life has to offer us and we choose our destiny with courage, consistency and self-love. Because whoever experiences freedom never accepts living as a spiritual slave.
Tantric massage: The word Tantra lives surrounded by mysteries and misunderstandings. It usually comes with promises, magic and fantasies related to sexuality. After all, is it possible to experience full body orgasms? Orgasms that can last for 20, 30, 40 minutes? Is it possible for a man to have multiple orgasms? And dry orgasms? It’s […]
According to ancient eastern cultures, sex is the moment when you can draw the most light into the earth. We are not talking here about sex for procreation, which is also very important, but we are talking about sex for pleasure, for the union of the couple. Now, to receive all this light through sex, […]
Today, I have a super tip for those who want to lose a few extra pounds, lose belly and no longer suffer from constipation. Do you suffer from constipation when traveling, or feel that your gut does not work as well as you would like? Would you like to lose belly or have more defined […]